What if the rules you've been following were never meant for your life?
You wake up already behind.
Before your feet hit the floor, you're mentally running through everything you didn't finish yesterday — and everything that needs to happen today. You say yes before you even think about it. You promise yourself things will feel lighter after this season. And somewhere in the middle of all of it, you keep maintaining a version of your life that stopped fitting a long time ago.
Because you've been carrying things that were never yours to carry — and you've been doing it so long, it started feeling normal.
This workshop is for you.
Not the version of you that has it all figured out.
The real one. The one who checks emails while your bagel toasts. The one who intends to cook dinner but is too exhausted by the time she sits down. The one who saves posts about boundaries and rest — and then ignores them in practice.
The eldest daughter. The mom. The one everyone relies on. The one who quietly wonders why it feels this heavy when she's doing everything "right."
If that's you — keep reading.
Here's what's actually happening.
It's not that you can't handle the pressure.
It's that you shouldn't have to.
Some of the balls you're carrying made sense in a past season — but right now, they're just keeping you stuck. And some of them? They were never yours to hold in the first place.
The problem isn't your discipline. It isn't your systems. It isn't your work ethic.
It's that nobody ever asked you to put anything down — and you never gave yourself permission to.
What we're doing in this workshop.
This isn't a motivational pep talk. It's not therapy.
This is a strategy + clarity session — designed to help you get specific about what you're holding, why you're holding it, and how to put it down without your life falling apart.
You’ll walk away with:
✔️ A clear understanding of what you’re holding onto (and why)
✔️ The “balls” you actually need to keep vs. the ones you can drop
✔️ A plan to release what’s weighing you down—without spiraling in guilt
✔️ Practical next steps to create more ease, time, and alignment in this season
“Bianca helped me discover my true potential and gain insight into what I’m creating and marketing- all in ONE conversation!”
-Ayline Finucane, Esq.
International Attorney
About Bianca
Been there. Done that. Got the T-shirt — then burned it.
I did everything right. Followed the rules, chased the safe path, and my life still went left.
I couldn't find work. Ended up homeless. And somewhere in the wreckage of doing everything "right," I realized something that changed everything: the rules are bullshit.
Not because they're wrong. Because they were never written for your life.. They were written by your culture, your family, your industry, your social circle — and following them perfectly doesn't guarantee the life you actually want. It just guarantees you stay loyal to a version of success that was never yours.
That realization is what built Brilliant Rebel. And it's what I bring into every room I'm in — the permission to stop following rules that are keeping you miserable, and the strategy to actually build something different.
I learned that lesson the hard way — more than once.
Drop the Ball is for the woman who's ready for that same shift — but doesn't want to wait for a crisis to get her there. It's the first step in rewriting the rules for your life.
Workshop Details
Date: Sunday, February 8, 2026
Time: 12:00-1:30pm EST
Location: Virtual (details will be provided upon registration
Cost: $147
Capacity capped at 20
Ready to put something down?
If you’ve been waiting for permission—this is it.
You don’t have to do everything.
You don’t have to be everything.
And you don’t have to carry it all into this next season.